Loving Shelley Falkenberg.

Shelley was the eldest daughter of Thomas and Alwyn Falkenberg, sister to Carolyn, half-sister to Trygve, Erik and Robert, niece to Glenda and Christine.

She leaves behind two children, Hunter August and Isabel Alba. Shelley is also survived by her loving partner Devin Howard, Step-dad Eldon Moilanen, brother-in law Pankaj Prasad, nephews and nieces, and her only surviving grandmother, Ineiega Limosnero, Aunts, Uncles and numerous Cousins in the Philippines.

Shelley was born in the Philippines on December, 4th 1981, and moved to Willits in December 1988. She attended Willits Public Schools, and earned an academic presidential scholarship to attend Mills College in Oakland. Shelley graduated there with a B.A. in English Literature in 2004, and then moved back to Willits and married Eric Young in 2005.

Shelley was exuberant and gifted with many talents. She loved art, painting, writing, gardening, knitting and sewing, music and guitar. Her intelligence, tenacity, and love of learning are remembered by her teachers and school peers. She excelled in sports, especially basketball and volleyball. She was joyful and could fill a room with laughter. She made friends and confidants wherever she went. She had an indestructible commitment to her family and was limitless in love for her children.

Of all her passions, Shelley loved motherhood the most. She never read a baby blog and hardly opened parenting books. She parented from intuition and pure love.

We love Shelley with all of our hearts, but we now know that was not enough to shield her from the world. The reality of Shelley’s death is devastating, and no possible reason can justify her loss. She had so much to give to the world. We will miss her idealism, political and social commentary, humor and altruism to everyone she met.

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In lieu of flowers, our family would prefer donations to her children’s education fund.

In lieu of flowers, our family would prefer donations to her children’s education fund.

Shelley’s family has been blessed by many points of light in this dark night.

❤ Thank you to each person who has rallied to support us through her transition. ❤

Rest in Infinity, we love you dearly. ❤